Some things I get a lot - from friends, family, colleagues, strangers even!
'Aren't you scared?'
Or, 'You're really brave!'
Or, 'I couldn't do that!'
When I just want to shout from the rooftops, 'It's not that scary, I'm really not that brave, and you can definitely do it if you want to!'
Honestly, in my opinion, it is the best way to travel. Because really, you're never on your own!
When you go somewhere, whether it be to the pub, on a shopping trip, on a city break, on a holiday, or anywhere with friends or family, how likely are you to speak to other people? Even if you are like me (that annoying person that talks to people at the bus stop and in elevators) you are still more likely to stick with your own company than talk to others! Whereas if you are somewhere on your own, you are so much more likely to step out of that comfort zone (especially if you're an introvert!) and talk to people around you!
And where that opens up so many doors in terms of solo travel, is that when you open yourself up to talk to people, you can meet a whole range of amazing people - new friends, travellers and like-minded people with tips and places they've visited and recommend. But it also allows you to meet and connect with locals, and who better to be a tour guide, show you hidden gems and educate you on the culture and history of the place than somewhere from the location! Through being open-minded and connecting with people, I have found myself in some amazing scenarios!
Obviously, it goes without saying to be sensible, and keep your wits about you wherever you go; even though I hate to admit the sad reality, there are bad people everywhere. However, please don't let that put you off - there are a lot more good people in the world. Just be aware, be sensible, take precautions and trust your gut if something doesn't feel right. Travelling solo does make you more independent, and you start relying on yourself rather than other people to keep yourself safe. And independence isn't just a travel skill, its a life skill.
As if making new friends and connections isn't enough, it also gives you a chance to really get to know yourself - I know, how cliché! All jokes aside though, it allows you to really learn to enjoy your own company, and you can be the pioneer of your own plans and not have to think about anyone or anything else! It gives you the opportunity to take the time to give yourself the attention that you deserve! You will learn things about yourself, and probably surprise yourself!
If you have never travelled alone before, and want to but are too scared, or have never really considered it before, I really urge you to take the plunge!
For a little taste of what it might be like, maybe start small; go for a meal alone, or visit a new town by yourself, or go to a museum solo! Get used to your own company, and enjoy it!
If you are ready to take that solo leap but still have a few reservations, book a busy hostel - they are full to the brim of fun, like-minded travellers from all over the world! They may be in the same boat as you, or seasoned travellers who can give you some tips and put you at ease. And the truth is, these people will probably end up becoming life-long friends - I know I have made many from my travels!
And if you're a 'glamper' and are worried about hostels, don't be - don't get me wrong, they are not going to be your 5* dream hotels, but they are 99.9% of the time safe, welcoming, in great locations, and come with company of like-minded people, as well as usually having social hours, local tour offers, discounts on drinks/food and are very low cost!
And did I mention it's FUN?!
So please do it! Say yes! Take the plunge! And let me know how you get on!
All the love,
Lucy x
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